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Subject: Re: [XP] People vs Process
From: Ilja_Preuß <iljapreuss () googlemail ! com>
Date: 2009-04-21 10:43:33
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2009/4/16 Ricardo Mayerhofer <ricardo.ekm.listas@gmail.com>:
> If it's not possible to fix people, what are psychologists trying to
> achieve?
As far as I can tell, most of them are trying to help people after
they have been invited to. It's much more a role of
coaching/counceling than of fixing.
Cheers, Ilja
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<p>2009/4/16 Ricardo Mayerhofer <<a \
href="mailto:ricardo.ekm.listas%40gmail.com">ricardo.ekm.<wbr>listas@gmail.<wbr>com</a>>:<br>
<br>
> If it's not possible to fix people, what are psychologists trying to<br>
> achieve?<br>
<br>
As far as I can tell, most of them are trying to help people after<br>
they have been invited to. It's much more a role of<br>
coaching/counceling than of fixing.<br>
<br>
Cheers, Ilja<br>
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